When people are real, actual grown-ups, how do they go about making life decisions?
I'm serious. I apparently have no freaking clue how this is supposed to work.
I'm 30 years old and have no idea how to appropriately run my own life.
How do you do it? How do you know what's right for you and your family? How do you make choices when large chunks of every decision are up in the air? How do you know when it's the right time? How do you choose among several unpalatable options? How do you make yourself take that first step? How do you stop rethinking and rehashing every choice you made in the past that got you to where you are now? How do you know you're making the right decision? More importantly, how do you let go of the notion of a "right" decision when every decision is wrong?
If any of you have managed to figure any of this out, could you clue me in? It's high time I learned how to be an adult.