Anyone who's blogged for a while without alienating or pissing off a lot of their real-life friends/family/employers knows that some stories are not the blogger's to tell. You know you're an integral part of the story, and you want, need, ache to share, but the story isn't really yours. You're stuck. You just know you can't tell the story because of the repercussions it would cause. So it sits inside, waiting for the time when it might be ok to come out of hiding.